August 5, 2018 by The Best Dad Blog
As I write these words, I’m sitting on the carpeted floor of my living room – the furniture removed – surrounded by filled boxes and empty walls.
We lived here. And our life was here.
That life is going to continue, but just in a different city.
We can talk more about that adventure later. But tonight all I can think about is what happened between these walls.
Our home has returned to being a house. Just as it was when we moved in over seven years ago – totally empty, but filled with the hope and promise of the future.
Back then, we had no kids; our first was on the way and would be born five days after we arrived here.
We took possession of a house and made it our home.
I’m sitting here looking around and smiling at the memories popping from every corner. I remember a kid’s birthday party where all the guests decorated cookies on a tablecloth spread around the kitchen floor. I remember my daughter’s first words (“Hi, Dada!”). I remember the Star Wars trilogy marathon with all our kids (and how we fast-forwarded most of the movie because it was a biiiiiiiiiit too scary). I remember all the times grilling my signature meal (turkey burgers, corn, sweet potato chips) while holding a strong cocktail. I remember dragging the kids on sleds around the backyard. I (mostly) remember all of our adults-only bounce-house parties. I remember walking to the subway station and I remember all the daycare pickups and I remember the sick kids and I remember the tears and the laughs and the joy.
Our family happened within these walls. We moved in as a married couple with
a dog. We leave with three kids – and the dog. Everything else was here.
And now we are leaving.
But our home goes with us. The house stays behind for someone else to have a turn. And make memories. And host parties. And maybe raise a family if they want.
It’s a good house. It made for a great home.